SEARCHING FOR A SAVIOR- Don Hanley’s blog #72

I suppose that many, if not most, nonagenarians find themselves reminiscing about their years roaming around on this little planet of ours. Of course, I do. One of the many ideas that I learned and held on to, and feel ashamed that I did, was the belief that one must be baptized a Catholic Christian if I, or anyone, wished to go to heaven. There was no word about becoming a loving person. Of course, that is ridiculous, but I’m sure many thousands (millions??) continue to believe this. And many other Christian believers hold similar beliefs. I was in my 30s when I finally realized that idea was ridiculous. How in the world could a loving God create intelligent – at least in some ways - humans and then demand that they learn and accept certain beliefs to be with Him (never even considering that God is a Her) in heaven?)

I wanted to talk to John and Mary about this. I didn’t have to wait long. Mary, John, and Joshua were sitting in Mary’s flower garden. John gave me his more comfortable chair, and I was grateful. Mary looked at me and said, “Don, you look inquisitive and maybe even guilty. Tell us what’s going on with you.”

“Well, I’m ashamed to tell you that I was taught many wr0ng-headed things as I grew up in a family of devout Catholic Christians. One teaching that particularly bothered me was that only baptized Catholics could be with God our Father. when we die. All others would go to purgatory, limbo, or hell. The church leaders, the pope, bishops, and priests all claimed that the Church’s teachings came from Jesus before he died. I was looking forward to talking to you all about what Jesus taught. What did the Mosaic tradition say about this salvation thing?”

Mary and Joshua turned to John, and he said, “First, I want to repeat what I have already told you all, and that is that Jesus only stated that if we wish to be with Yahweh, our Father, we must love one another as He has loved us. And now that he has been crucified, we know that the ultimate sacrifice is to even die for our loving rather than stop loving. And He meant this for every human in our world.  He repeatedly said, "It is not an exclusive club or set of beliefs; it is based on our love – not on what we believe. And I am not anyone’s savior – each one of us is responsible for saving ourselves by being loving human persons." I don’t think Jesus could have made it any clearer. Now, Don, what is going on in your century that this is still a question?”

I don’t think John meant to put me down, but I felt scolded and like a complete dummy. I thought of the bookstore racks displaying books entitled COMPUTERS FOR DUMMIES, SMARTPHONES FOR DUMMIES,  and many more.  We need a book entitled SALVATION FOR DUMMIES. After that brief reflection, I said, “Yes, I’m afraid it is still a question. My own Catholic Church states that we have been told that  is an absolute 'trruth", and we must believe all  church 'truths' and keep all the rules of the church or CHURCH if we want to go to heaven. Another sect even condemns dancing. For many years, I believed everyone was judged by how well they kept the church's commandments. I knew a wonderfully loving and intelligent man who had five children and did not make love with his wife because it would jeopardize her health - her life even - if she were to get pregnant again. I tried to convince him that I was sure God did not operate that way. He said he knew that intellectually but remained fearful anyway. I hated it that fear overcame love and joy.”

Mary immediately jumped in, “Now, Don, I want to join in here and be absolute, too. I am sure that Jesus did NOT, in any way, condemn people for doing what they believe will help keep them physically healthy and emotionally joyous and loving.”… and with that positive note, I disappeared. Now . . . 

Ponder the joy of being your own savior and read a few prominent menus but eat the banquet joyfully.

Why so many dictators? – Don Hanley’s blog #28

I asked AI why do so many people search for someone to be their Savior -- even chose evidently outlandishly cruel and selfish people like Trump and dictators? In seconds, here is Chat’s reply:

ChatGPT

The search for a Savior or a strong leader is a complex phenomenon rooted in various psychological, social, and cultural factors. Here are some reasons why people might gravitate towards figures like Trump or dictators, despite their controversial or negative qualities:

1. Fear and Insecurity: In times of uncertainty or crisis, people may feel anxious or insecure about their future. They might look for a strong leader who projects confidence and promises stability and security.

2. Authoritarianism: Some individuals are naturally inclined towards authoritarianism, valuing strong, centralized leadership. They may believe that a powerful leader can bring order and discipline to society, even if it means sacrificing certain democratic principles.

3. Populism: Leaders like Trump often appeal to populist sentiments by positioning themselves as champions of the common people against an established elite. People who feel marginalized or left behind by societal changes may be drawn to leaders who promise to address their concerns.

4. Charismatic Leadership: Charismatic leaders have a magnetic personality and the ability to captivate audiences. Even if their policies or actions are controversial, their charisma can attract a devoted following.

5. Simplification of Complex Issues: Some leaders simplify complex problems into easy-to-understand narratives. This can resonate with people who feel overwhelmed by the complexity of global issues and are drawn to leaders who offer simple solutions or scapegoats.

6. Identity and Belonging: People often seek a sense of belonging and identity. Leaders who promote a strong nationalistic or tribal identity can attract followers who identify with these narratives and feel a sense of belonging.

7. Media Influence: Media plays a significant role in shaping perceptions of leaders. Biased or sensationalized media coverage can contribute to the creation of a larger-than-life image around certain leaders, influencing public opinion.

8. Desire for Change: People may support a controversial leader as a way of expressing frustration with the status quo. The desire for change, even if it involves taking risks, can lead individuals to rally behind leaders who promise to disrupt existing systems.

It's important to note that the reasons people support a particular leader can vary widely, and individual motivations are complex and multifaceted. Additionally, political preferences and choices are influenced by a combination of personal experiences, cultural factors, and the socio-political context of the time.

Thank you - this is the best answer I have found. Is it okay if I share this with mu fb friends?

ChatGPT

Absolutely, you are welcome to share the information with your Facebook friends. If you find the information helpful or informative, sharing knowledge can contribute to a better understanding of complex issues. Feel free to pass along any information you find valuable. If your friends have further questions or need clarification, I'm here to help!